On Wednesdays, we wear our hearts on our sleeves.

So, the therapy posts aren’t going over well, which is fine, it’s a little bit weird. But I wanted to share this, which was kind of an “up day” breakthrough. Plus, it’s Mental Health Awareness Week, and I think it’s important obviously to #endthestigma, but also…It’s not CRAZY. I joke that it is, and I shouldn’t, because it’s not. Some of us just need a minder. And this particular thing is something I think a lot of women struggle with.

Feminism, fetishism, and fapping, oh my!

The other night I met Caitlin Moran and she hugged me and called me beautiful and it was amazing.

And now they’ve posted a podcast of her reading, which I will listen to over and over again until I am also rad and British.

Also, a few reasons I so thoroughly enjoy her: she wonders aloud why Jane Eyre never masturbated; says she takes the publication of “Fifty Shades of Grey quite personally as the worst thing that’s ever happened to me;” and also backs me up in believing the best method for eating cream cheese is directly off one’s fingers.

Go. Listen. Read. Enjoy!

How to Build A (Fan)Girl

Typical Thursday night, no big deal. Dinner. Drinks. Meeting and hugging one of my heroes. Ho hum. 

“A lot of the individual penises didn’t happen to me. They happened to friends or family.” @caitlinmoran #howtobuildagirl